Chinese bachelors dream of submissive wives from Vietnam

Recently, the number of marriages between local women and foreigners has increased significantly in Vietnam. Such marriages are registered both in relatively developed large cities and in small southern provinces of the country. Vietnamese women are increasingly marrying Chinese women.

A Chinese writer once said, “Marry a Japanese woman and get a real wife, find a French woman and have a beautiful mistress, hire a man from China and eat well, find an English butler and he will keep your house in order.” Well, if the author of these lines lived to this day, then he would certainly choose a girl from Vietnam for marriage. In 2010, Chinese Dai, a native of Nanjing, spent about 35 thousand yuan (by the way, this is a rather modest amount by Chinese standards) to marry a girl from Vietnam. “Young, kind, frugal, hardworking, diligent, decent, submissive,” Mr. Dai described the many virtues of his wife. After getting acquainted with its history, Chinese Internet users praised the appearance of the Vietnamese woman and unanimously awarded her the honorary title of “highest category product”.

Vietnamese women are deservedly considered one of the most beautiful representatives of the fairer sex in the world. Vietnamese girls often take part in various beauty contests, invariably taking places in the top ten. Is it any wonder that traveling to Vietnam to acquire a spouse is becoming increasingly popular among Chinese bachelors? Bride trafficking in Vietnam has essentially turned into a conveyor belt - many single residents of Hong Kong, Taiwan, Beijing and Shanghai have arranged their personal lives in this way. More than 200,000 Vietnamese women live in Taiwan alone.

“All my ex-girlfriends preferred to go to expensive malls even to buy another trinket. And Yin is happy to even walk in the usual bazaar, – talking about his wife named A Yin, Dai could not resist a happy smile. Chinese bachelors, disappointed in their mercantile and obstinate compatriots, prefer obedient Vietnamese women. “By our standards, you may have a modest income, but even with such money in Vietnam you will be considered rich, which means that you can easily find a good, and most importantly, always submissive wife.”

Is that true or not? At one time, long-running discussions about Vietnamese wives blew up Chinese forums. The happy husbands claimed that feelings were the most important thing in marriage, while many Internet users reproached them for self-deception, vanity and slave-owning ambitions. “Are you jealous?” the husbands laughed back. "Inviting a girl you like in a cafe, presenting a few gifts to her and her relatives, paying for a luxurious dinner with exquisite seafood, organizing a chic wedding banquet for 80 people - it will cost the groom about 300,000 Vietnamese dongs." One Chinese yuan is equal to about 3,000 dong, a journalist from China, who decided to thoroughly study such cases, shared interesting details with readers in his article.

The ratio of male to female in Vietnam is proportional to 3/5. The weak economy and widespread poverty of the local population only pushes Vietnamese girls to marry a wealthy foreigner. Marriage with a rich foreigner is regarded as a generous gift of fate. Dai said that in Vietnam there are professional matchmakers, picking up beautiful girls who want to marry a man from another country. Matchmakers teach them good manners and beauty secrets, and then introduce already prepared brides to potential husbands. According to Dai, marrying a Vietnamese woman is easy enough, you need to get the approval of her family, buy a few gifts, then arrange a luxurious banquet and the wedding certificate will be in your pocket. Registration of the certificate usually takes about a month, during which the happy bride learns the language and customs of her husband’s homeland. It is noteworthy that matchmakers provide various guarantees to potential clients, such as: express marriage in just three months, stable prices, and most interesting - in the case of a girl's escape from her husband within one year from the date of marriage, the matchmaker undertakes to replace her with a new girl.

Dai's future wife was chosen from more than 40 applicants. He went to Vietnam alone and, after placing several ads in local newspapers “about friendship with a foreigner,” began to receive numerous reviews from the girls and invite them on dates. Some of them were genuine beauties who would hardly get lost in the gray crowd. However, after a series of failures with girls who chose younger and more attractive foreigners, the Chinese was lucky to meet a matchmaker who arranged his fate. While searching for his future wife, Dai felt like a king - every girl he dined with first filled his plate with rice with seafood and meat, and then humbly waited for the man to start eating. Only then did she dare to take her sticks.

In the eyes of Vietnamese women, Chinese women are a very good way to get married. A Yin had two sisters and married Chinese men. One sister married a Hong Kong resident, another a Taiwanese, and the girls' father became a respected man in his village. Dai and A Yin married last winter in Vietnam before moving to Nanjing. The girl proved to be an excellent housewife and caring wife. She often visits her husband in his office and brightens up her work routine. Now the young wife attends Chinese language courses and a dance class.

After the wedding, Dai traveled to Vietnam many times, helping friends and acquaintances to find family happiness. “Can such a marriage bring true happiness? Of course, such a wife will listen to you in everything, take care of you, keep a hearth. But won't it do all this like an insensitive robot? Will family life become nothing more than boredom? – such questions are asked by a considerable number of Chinese who adhere to traditional romantic views of marriage as a solid and sincere union of two happy hearts. Dai sees things a little differently. After the wedding and his return to China, he posted a detailed account of his trip on several dating sites, providing him with detailed photos, and offered everyone the services of organizing a wedding tour to Vietnam.

“Almost immediately I received feedback. So far, I have organized 9 group tours, leaving almost every month. The group had between 3 and 12 people, mostly customers from Shanghai, Beijing, Hong Kong and Taiwan. Almost all of them had good wives. Many times I called men from my native Nanjing, but they did not go beyond talking about the trip, said Dai. “Vietnamese girls are beautiful and very economical. I recall an incident from the past, when I bought my friend from Nanjing excellent shoes for several hundred yuan, and received only a crooked grin and a reproach for total lack of taste. My new wife prefers to buy things only in big bazaars and bargains very well. And if she has any change, she always returns my money, he added.

But about this advertising Vietnamese matchmakers seduce Chinese bachelors:

- Get yourself a wife from Vietnam.

(1) Guaranteed virgin.

(2) Delivery within 90 days.

(3) No additional costs.

(4) If the bride runs away from you during the first year, replace her with another for free.

A few years ago, the Chinese media spread sensational news: police in Hunan Province began investigating the mysterious disappearances of more than 100 women from Vietnam who illegally entered China. In the course of the investigation, interesting details emerged that the unfortunate Vietnamese women were bought by Chinese peasants living in remote mountain villages. Some Vietnamese women were seduced by promises of good jobs and decent earnings in China, while others were kidnapped and smuggled across the Vietnam-China border. Peasants were extremely reluctant to contact the authorities, which greatly complicated the work of law enforcement agencies. Some of the women were found and police told them that Chinese slavers treated them like animals – they were transported in potato bags and mercilessly beaten with sticks for the slightest fault.

As it turned out, the trafficking of women from Vietnam has become widespread in poor areas of China, where single men, unspoiled by the attention of women, are desperately ready to even make a deal with slave traders who offer them beautiful and obedient Vietnamese girls. To blame for this is only increasing every year in China sexual imbalance — the number of single men significantly exceeds the number of unmarried Chinese women. What else can Chinese bachelors do in such harsh conditions? There is a demand - there is a supply: for a rather modest amount, you can get a docile and hardworking Vietnamese woman as a wife. Moreover, this can be done legally through numerous marriage agencies, and illegally – in this case, it is enough to buy a girl illegally imported into China from Vietnam. Most often, such transactions are carried out in the neighboring province of Yunnan (Yunnan), the cost of such services is much more profitable than the offers of professional marriage agencies.

Source: madplanet.ru